The first thing to consider is the number of musicians involved. Are you hiring a string quartet, a string trio, or a duo..? Usually larger group gives you more extensive music choices.  Next step is to set up the wedding program, and what you will have in it. Things like processional, unity candle, communion, readings and more. Once you have that set, then it’s time to insert music between or during those parts.  More often then not I end up suggesting different pieces to be played, making sure they are appropriate for the ceremony.  If needed, I meet with brides to discuss the music, making sure that we don’t only follow my suggestions, but a bride likes what we have chosen. I think that is the most involved part for me – working with brides on their music selections (and then playing them!). I have had several people who in the past have requested music that was not their best choices, and I am not afraid to point that out. However, the final decision is with the bride. I will give as much input as wanted…